Bitter Sweet

Karisa and I had a great weekend. The best part was, without a doubt, getting to see our dear friend, John. I lived with John for a year after graduating college (along with two fine other men, Joe and Brett). John is one of the most fun people I know. He has an excitement for things that I can't even compare to. Not to mention that he has a knack for telling stories (not to mention getting into situations that make GREAT stories)!

John left last Christmas to do things that I am jealous of. He spent months up in Alaska working at a fish hatchery. Then he went to Europe and traveled around for four weeks seeing all sorts of amazing things. He spent time with family in New England and Virgina. Then he went and built log cabins in New York.

"John," I said, "I look at your life and wonder what I'm doing with mine! I don't have nearly as much excitement or adventure."

"I look at your life and am jealous of the stability you have," he answered.

So I guess we're both living good lives... just different ones!

Karisa and I have said to each other many times that we wish John was still in Chicago. It's hard to explain how great it is to watch a movie with John or how he can make the most mundane of meals become enjoyable. There aren't many people you meet who will drive all night after work to come to your wedding after only knowing you a year. John is one of those people.

John is driving to Denver today. He's pursuing a career with the Fire Department, going to Paramedic school, and making plans to start his own log cabin building business. I know without a doubt that he will do well at all of those things! Karisa and I will be looking forward to visiting Denver sometime so we can hang out with John.

So while it was bittersweet to have John leave, it was mostly just sweet to have him here for two days!